A few days ago, Kevin introduced a few of us to Geni. It’s a free online family tree/genealogy tool. Quite appropriate, in the light of what I’ve discovered recently.
I had already set up a family tree on Singapore Family Tree when it was launched last year. Somehow, it didn’t seem too engaging. I’d invited some family members to join but they didn’t contribute. So, it remained stagnant. I have to admit that part of the inertia was that I had no leads beyond what I had entered into the family tree. But that does not account for the fact that I wasn’t very bothered about typing in everything I knew or could easily find out.
My Geni experience was very different.
Registration kills two birds with one stone. You fill in your name and email, then click Start. With that, you’ve registered with Geni as well as created your bare bones profile. They send you the password for your account, which you can change later.
Adding people to the tree is a cinch. Just click on one of three arrows to add family members: up for parents, down for children, and sideways for siblings and spouses. You’ll need a first name and surname to fill in a profile. Beyond that, the sky’s the limit. There are lots of fields where you can fill relevant information to your heart’s content or to the limit of your knowledge, whichever comes first.
That leads me to my next point: Some of your relatives know more about your family than others.
I set up a very basic tree, consisting of my immediate family: parents, siblings, grandparents and great-grandparents. I opted to invite my parents and siblings to use the service. This is where things got interesting.
My mum was the first to accept the invitation. I saw an email notification and thought nothing more of it. When I next logged in, I was surprised to find that she’d filled in the details of her siblings! Not only that, she’d invited some of her sisters, who also started building their own trees.
Viral, I tell you!
Now, my mum isn’t the most tech-savvy person by any means. I had to coach her for a while before she got the hang of blogging. Geni, on the other hand, was so intuitive that she registered and started using it. All on her own.
Seeing how Mum did that, I entered what I knew about my father’s siblings. I also corrected some technical details on Mum’s entries, most of which were default settings that needed to be changed to more accurately reflect reality. I also had to change a few options to display my grandmother’s spouses (whose first husband died) accurately on the tree. Then, I added my cousins. I missed out a few which I have had almost no contact with. Once again, Mum chipped in to fill in the blanks.
I’m not sure if she’s getting email updates on changes, but I know that she’s been logging in to help flesh out the tree!
Geni is pretty amazing. It is a family tree with a rudimentary social network. It’s about the easiest online tool I’ve ever used. The interface is clean and well thought out. There are also tons of features and settings for advanced users. It’s a worldwide service, so users might even connect with long-lost or previously unknown family members. Most importantly, it’s fun.
That’s a lot more than I can say for SFT. It’s an admirable effort but it pales in comparison. Plus there is the suggestion that SFT will not always be free or available. On the sidebar, it says: “Your account will expire in 266 Days”. Not reassuring at all! I want my family tree to persist!
Oh, yes… one more thing.
Listen carefully, I will only say this once:
My father’s sister is married to my mother’s brother.
So, both of them appear on either side of the family (from my perspective). Thankfully, it seems that Geni has an elegant solution to this situation in my family. Apparently, if you enter the same email address in two profiles, Geni will ask if you want to merge those. You can create a dummy email address if that person doesn’t have one. I haven’t tried this out because I want to use an actual email address, which I am sure at least my aunt has. I wonder how it will look like in Geni.
I acknowledge that Geni won’t alleviate the difficulties I face in finding out about my grandparents siblings and more about preceding generations. These mysteries will take a lot of groundwork to solve. I believe, this might require digging in Malacca and KL Archives. This is a long-term, slow-burn project. At very least, I know that all the pertinent family details are stored safely in Geni, with a tiny glimmer of hope that distant relatives might discover the Lost Pintos.
UPDATE I managed to merge profiles!
Another UPDATE Kevin blogged about Geni, highlighting this post. Oh, and my cousins have been getting in on the act too.

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I tried it out…. going to get my cousin’s email to get them to fill out their side of the family.
*heehee* Plus ask my mom and dad for my grandparents’ name.
My family tree is still growing… sideways! Wonder what’s my next step to make it grow upwards. Only have my paternal grandfather’s parents names. Some would say this is the line I should pursue since that’s how you traditionally trace lineage. Still, interested in all my grandparents’ siblings and parents too.
Wow! Thanks for the great write up. Sounds like your family is going an amazing job of connecting through the Geni tree you started.
My father’s sister is married to my mother’s brother.
So, both of them appear on either side of the family (from my perspective). Thankfully, it seems that Geni has an elegant solution to this situation in my family.
Was about to say that the linking two existing people function doesn’t work as advertised. I re-read the FAQ and realised that I didn’t followed through with the instructions completely. I can’t edit my Mum’s siblings’ profiles, so I’ll have to get her enlist her help to do this.
Yep, my family tree is flat like yours. I want to add my great grand parents though from my mom’s side. Just that she has to dig out the info and heh i think best to ask her again over the weekend.
this has inspired me to step up on my own family tree. this is very very cool
but its sad to say that eurasians have a some what easier task of tracing their roots than other groups - and thats just a personal opinion that i got from attending 2 separate workshops on tracing chinese and eurasian family trees 
PS: Sad for me lah coz harder for me *sigh*
Now have to start digging for records. You attended a workshop on tracing Eurasian family trees? Heheh… must find out more from you then.
But yah, set up a Geni account and play around with it.
I hope that Geni adds this features.
- merging of big trees
- Face photo tagging like facebook.
I read about this when you first wrote about it, but didn’t have time then to use it. I *just* started using it today, as I wanted to create something for our new arrival.
Been speaking with my mom, since my father has passed away, and she says we will probably be able to go back only to her father because she doesn’t know who her grandparents are - her parents came over from China and she’s not sure if they maintained contact with family over there. Besides, her father was the only son.
Then there is the problem of not keeping in touch with the relatives on my father’s side, due to some differences. Wonder how I’m going to get information from that side.
I’m going to slowly build the tree and see how much I progress…